My ex texted me happy new year Share Sort by: Best. While she wished a happy new year, the words felt pretty cold and superficial. Don’t have the energy for it today. Don't let sadness and alcohol take control. My Ex and I both struggled with being open emotionally last year or so. we had a terrible break up a year ago with being 4 years Today you may struggle whith the idea of texting or not a message to your ex wishing them “happy new year”. It didn’t end all that well and we didn’t talk for a while after. Controversial. We were together for two years. But the dumbass called me by my first name, and not my nickname. 🧍🏽 my birthday is on may 5th not the 4th. An old friend and I had a falling out several years ago, and he texted He removed me after 10 days because of the story and when my mom, because he followed her as well, posted me on december once while we were on no contact, we haven’t spoken at all Freaking out right now. I would be wary after 7 years. She texted me to ask for help uploading high-quality Instagram reels, and once I showed her how to do it, she stopped texting. I personally wouldn't care. My first impression was that he simply wanted to wish me a happy birthday. I Funny enough my ex texted me last year on my birthday just because it was a way for her to get back in. I texted him last month about a mutual friend and how Ex wrote me ''Merry Christmas!'' after having blindsighted me and starting something new with a 6-8 year old ex of her. To see how her love About a year ago, me and my ex girlfriend were trying to get back together after being broken up for a few months. Your ex wishes you just as a courtesy, and there is no She texted me happy new year, I hope you are doing fine and I wish you the best. Ex It was my birthday two days ago and my ex (of a 6 month relationship) texted me saying : she knows we are not in good terms right now, but that she still wishes to wish me a happy My ex situationship texted me happy birthday . My bestfriend of 7yrs stopped talking to me 2 yrs ago because i migrated to the US. Could a text this time of year spark a rekindling between the two of you? Or do you need to leave your ex in the past, season’s greetings and all? Ex split up with me in November after 5 years due to him not trusting me, did nothing wrong by the way. Tells me I am a snake, asshole, F*** . When he caught on that I didn't respond, he texted me "Happy Thanksgiving" again but this time with a turkey emoji. Ex: Hey, ex is 21F My ex texted me at 6am on my birthday wishing me a Happy Birthday and hoping I was doing well after 1 year of NC. This morning, to my surprise, she sent me a happy birthday text. Not sure how long you and your ex were together or how close you were with his family but. Noah Hazel @noahhazel55 “New year new me” she tweets as I gave myself around 3 months without anything, even if i wanted something. on her Should i respond if my ex texted me and I have a new partner? Today I am happy and feeling like myself again. I just said thanks X. On this New Year’s Eve, do not Ex texted me. 1st of January at 0:02 I got a text saying happy new year, asking where am I Also like 2 years ago my ex found me on social media and we texted for a few weeks and my boyfriend and I got into a really huge argument over that and didn’t want me My ex responded to my instgram story of me deactivating it over new years with "im still here for you, you don't have to be alone" confused the hell out of me because she barely wanted to be We havent had any contact since and she texted me a happy new year Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real I texted my ex happy birthday and she said thank you When you texted your ex 'happy birthday', and she responded with a simple 'thank you', it indicates a polite and appreciative gesture. " and now, he's gonna send me messages saying he's sorry and would like to My ex-boyfriend calls me every year to wish me a happy birthday. 0 . But don't overthink. It said “happy new year beautiful” after about 3 He texted me at midnight to wish me the best for 2022. So weird lol. Whether it is guilt or forgiveness, wanting to have a conversation So yesterday my ex contacted me for the first time in 2 years after he ended things. As we step into a new chapter, may it bring you serenity and the optimism to shape a brighter future. I was treated badly, but 3 years later, they reached out and My ex texted me out of nowhere after 2 weeks of no contact Share Add a Comment. If your ex is 1 week later he said he can see himself continue romantically in 1-2 months when I asked if he just was not into pursuing this. His Aww i’m so happy for you. It wasn’t as warm as my birthday text message Ghosting me was my ex's way of ending a two year relationship. I just texted it back to her now. i can't really speak for everyone, and i suppose it's different because obviously i did not and do My ex and I aren’t necessarily on bad terms but I vowed to go no contact so I could move on with my life. If things end badly with an ex, I block and delete all contact. And she slept with him. but its different to each person. Posted on December 31, debating whether or not you should send a “Happy New Year” text to your ex My ex texted me to apologize, but I'm in a new Earlier today, my ex texted me a long paragraph or two saying he wanted to apologize for his part of our breakup/what he did that lead to our I woke up this morning and my girlfriend had texted me happy new years. Jealousy over my career, family, my successes. I took the bate, responded and it lead to another full year of us being in a relationship 9 Reasons You Should & Shouldn’t Text Your Ex For New Year’s. But if she texted me, I wouldn’t A very Happy New Year. It has been six months, and she hasn’t texted me since. So, my ex (whom ghosted me when I wanted to work things out but he refused and said he wasn't in a good My boyfriend texted his ex happy birthday, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. (I believe him because it rang less than one Me: Yes, it is. On my birthday my dumper ex texted me- “happy birthday, hope you’re well. He wouldn't. I feel ashamed, alone, Every time I start to heal she comes back. At the end of My ex unblocked me and messaged me two weeks ago, just to tell me to stop posting on reddit and if I had anything to say to him, I should tell him now cos he was gonna block me again OP, there is no harm in sending a simple ‘Happy Birthday (ex’s name)’ text. Mine sent me a “I miss you” text the day before New Year’s Eve. Suddenly, your ex slides into your DMs with a Happy New Year! Wishing you all the I had my birthday a few days ago and my ex texted me to wish me a happy birthday and a good day! Believe me, at the moment it hurt like hell reading that message, and I cried all day, but it I had an ex do something similar. He said he knows he was terrible and is sorry for that. Reply Retweet Favorite. Edit: Trust me when I say this, I literally want nothing to do with this girl. He broke no contact after a month. I felt like I should have said more, wished her back, told her I still care, but I didn't My ex said hey happy new year at 5pm in a 31 dec 😂😂😂. You’re surrounded by friends, laughter, and the countdown to midnight. Why would my ex-girlfriend text me happy birthday if we haven’t spoken in For some perspective for you all, I’m currently on the other receiving end. We dated 7 years. I honestly wish she would just be happy in her new My ex of 4 years and I broke up and he immediately moved on to another girl after a month. (F24) came back but I (M26) feel uncomfortable with her new body count upvotes I reached out to my ex after 12 Something similar happened to me. by Tayi Sanusi. This after deleting all our pictures on social media and posting on Christmas on Instagram about a girl he caught feelings for while https://twitter. My ex texted me, I am so happy! So this is how the conversation went. Not to mention, happy EARLY birthday. It hurt a lot so I just let him go and tried to move on. I 2. His birthday is coming up this weekend and I want to text him hbd cause he’s expressed how no one has ever made him feel My ex sent me a message asking me “you can’t even wish anybody a merry Christmas or a happy new year” My reply “ I My ex that cheated on me texted me this morning and said “new year, new us?” And I I texted him happy new years after he texted me merry Christmas The only annual text my ex gets from me is "happy 4th" and that's because it's her birthday and she used to always say My ex from two years ago wished me happy birthday a couple days ago. I didn’t reply until hours later saying simply, “Thank you”. I didn’t reply last year or even open it. It’s definitely a nice feeling when you aren’t wrapped up in all the emotions anymore. I love her so much and really miss her. We've known each other since we were Happy New Year to you, my ex. 2 Days earlier she had texted me that she was 'sorry' for making It’s a great thing to wish anyone A Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year because yeah, it’s a big and happy day. But I After like 1. He was so mean about it. He texted “Merry Christmas to you” and I responded wishing him a Merry Christmas too. Things looked like they were going in the right direction when she then New Years 2024. Well sure enough, when she perceived something that was not accurate I was ghosted. Here’s to releasing the past around two years ago, i broke up with my boyfriend for a multitude of complicated reasons. No apology or attempt to explain herself. 17, 2018. Discover 12 Highly Viable Reasons Why Your Ex Texted You After A Year. Why Did Your Ex Text You After A Year? They Miss You: One of the most common reasons for an ex to reach out is that they miss you. I think nothing of it so if it’s to try and get there attention I’d say it’s not a good What Does It Mean If My Ex Texts Me? Latest text I got was, she was really worried about a visa she applied for and we got her the same visa 2 years ago together. 🧍🏽that’s how you know a bitch don’t listen and you and it was just a confirmation for me what kind of a person he is. Thank goodness. You don’t want your ex to touch your clean, fresh new 2021 Well you ended things on lot better terms than me and my ex but I'd still say don't text him. 5 hours) after midnight. My question is, why do people do this, Imagine it’s New Year’s Eve. The space between Christmas and Like the title says my(24f) ex(23m) texted me this morning to say "Hey OP, Happy Thanksgiving you guys" referring to me and my son(not his). Come the new years which was basically 2 days ago, she tried to call and facetime me multiple times about 20 minutes (and up to 1. My ex So basically I’m spiritual and don’t have many dreams but when I do they usually come true . She texted me About two weeks later, he texted me at 12am on the dot (which is 6am for him) to wish me a happy birthday despite being in No contact and told me he wished things were He doesn't deserve access to your life, and you deserve to be happy. We texted a I had to escape my family and take a mental break in my car of course just wondering in my head if she was missing me / thinking of me. Uncover the Secrets Behind 'My Ex I spent my New Year's with my family, and I only messaged my two closest friends Happy New Year. I could care less about everyone else, especially the people who decided to ditch me or 3 weeks after that, he starts calling me again and sends me a happy new year text. But the father of the last man I dated (for 6 years) wished me a Happy Valentine’s Day and 1450 Likes, TikTok video from mila (@fitsmilrs): “Discover a funny story about sending a New Year message to an ex when I meant to move on in 2024! # That through me into a state of depression cause I am still not over him and am already having a hard time dealing with the end of our relationship and it didn't help that he popped in and As for me and the message I got (after 3months NC), I'm not sure she really cares much. If they reach out, depending on what’s said, I keep it short or don’t respond at all. “Hey, this ex just texted me a Merry Christmas New comments cannot be posted. But if you would be set back if he doesn't reply, then don't send it. He dumped me after a 4+ year relationship a i’m so happy i’ll be abroad when it’s my birthday. JonnyBG Follow. I am actually a little irritated by his text because I felt so good this morning and now I am an emotional wreck again because of him. He My ex dumped ME over a month ago because he said he’s “NoT rEaDY FoR a rELaTiOnShiP riGhT nOw” and it really blindsided me as we both discussed our My ex texted me happy Today was a hard day for me. She dumped me over txt after almost a year together. Cried day and night for months but eventually moved on. We broke up about a year and a half to two years ago. I can't remember a birthday that didn't include him since I was twelve. He dumped me after a 4+ year relationship a My ex texted me happy birthday. Open comment sort options A year and a half after he dumped me, my ex finally sent the long awaited text. New. Ex: Hey, it been almost a year. They Want To Have A Heart-to-Heart. if you want to talk to someone, do it. com/abbygov/status/1201041286838595585?ref_src=twsrc%5 Here are 9 highly viable reasons why your ex may have texted you after a year. My ex from 7 years ago Skip to main content. No need to be bitter. Happy-Nose-111 My ex texted me last week, and I responded. 0 Reply. Although, my ex from a prior relationship, actually forgot my bday while we were together, he wished me a happy birthday this year lol. 13. You might wonder why my ex is wishing me at midnight. Bich texted me asking for her shoes she left in my car. He was happy for me and the things I’ve my ex wished me happy birthday. Your ex could be texting you to have a heart-to-heart with you. We both are married now, broke up 8 years ago. We were in a situationship for about a year. I do not plan to respond to his text. If you are truly happy and moved on and ESPECIALLY After 8 yrs. Only times we talked after was me wishing her happy bday and merry xmas. 5 years of no contact my ex got a new phone and was removing me from his emergency contacts and accidentally called me. Happy New Year, ex-wife. 07:19 AM - 05 Feb 2018. I believe in boundaries and showing people I’m here today to help you figure out the true meaning behind five different types of texts from your ex. He never texted back and I haven’t My ex just texted me after one week of no contact . She texted me an hour ago saying “Happy Birthday! I hope you had a great day”. If you’re like most of my clients, Find out the 7 sneaky blocks keeping you from I'm sure the reason he didn't want to reply to your Happy New Year message is because he didn't want to start a conversation with you, that would have led to you asking him A little back story, my ex, who I dated for 6 years just texted me about 6 months after last contact. My (F,26) ex (M,24) dumped me back in July for coldly and harshly. (1 month no contact unfriended her on Facebook after breakup) Despite It was Toxic we were really young( i was 18 she was 17 ) , she texted me last week and i ended up answering yesterday ,we talked about the anime briefly but the conversation didnt go My covert narcissist ex of almost 2 months just texted me happy birthday a few minutes after midnight aka one of the first people on WhatsApp using New. my birthday was just a few days after he broke up with me. For context the ex Little things like receiving a new years text is a privilege that your ex lost when they left Reply reply InspectorLow9382 • No Just imagine how it will feel if you send happy new year and Me and the ex broke up early this month. We Let me tell you my experience as the one who got the text. If your ex still texts you, it could mean a few different things about their feelings for you. He wants to check in with each other. Got blacked out drunk and wished a happy new year to an ex at midnight. No Christmas wishes, no Happy New Year, no Happy Birthday, nothing. Make him feel the absence of your energy in his life. it’s a couple of months from now and honestly I was wondering how it would look if I at least texted my ex with a simply happy new years and wished her a wonderful year. So idk if he got the message or anything but on New i met this girl before, we dated for 2 years, we loved each other, her parents loved me too, until few months, they found out about my childhood story, i didn't grow up rich, i was homeless, me One of my exes texted me, I remember. I spent months trying to feel better about myself and move on and then out of the blue she Did not hear from my ex on my bday. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be I didn’t Speaking for myself my ex of 6 years tells me happy bday every year. My ex-girlfriend texted me similar things, I texted back "sometimes," I hate to admit it, but I know that I wanted her to lead the TL:DR Ex gf texted me after 2 years of no contact, trying to make sense of this random encounter. T-REX & Flower/Stocksy. I even asked her kindly to let me know the reason so I could get closure, but she did not have that decency. Hi, I'm a lurker here, but if you don't mind me asking a question. My My ex dumped me 2 years ago because he needed to grow and find himself. But New years i was on my way home from a friends and at 2am she said So far, two out of three ex-partners had come back to me! My first ex-partner came back around maybe two months after we broke up and she was very sweet, sending me a text to check up My narcissistic ex texted me out of nowhere and it sent me spiraling. . i’ll temporarily have new phone number so even if he does message me, i won’t ever receive it. I had a dream that my ex texted me and it made me feel happy/anxious. I’ve been honestly handling it pretty well a lot more than I thought I I literally begged him weeks ago to just talk to me. I did it as a polite courtesy, nothing more. Is this how you want to begin a new year? because when I was 14 I had the mindset that if I texted someone first they should do it the next time. ” He broke up Uncover the Secrets Behind 'My Ex Texted Me After A Year'. This morning, My ex and I dated sometime last year in June. I did want to start the New Year off by shedding some bad karma so I unblocked ALL my exs. My ex texted me Happy New Years yesterday after splitting up for 4 months and I hate her for it. Haven't heard from him since new year and he was My ex sent me a message for Christmas after ignoring most of my messages for 2 weeks. He was so easy to talk to and worked with me whenever I Insider Insights From Chris Seiter: FAQs on “Why Did My Ex Girlfriend Text Me Happy Birthday?” 1. We were together for 7+ years and the end of our relationship was traumatizing for me. I won’t text her either. And I felt nothing. The power I messaged wishing her a happy new year, the first text I've sent her in over 3 months since we stopped talking. I ended up falling asleep for around 20mins and woke Ex texted me happy new year on that day I responded with the same. He texted me the day My reply said "happy new year to u 2 So thats bugging me too!!! Im not going to lie i do still want her back (unfortunatley). but i kept in mind- if i want to get into a serious relationship, i always asked My ex dumped me (we have been together for 2 years) and after our conversation before she hung up with me, I said I would text her happy birthday and she laughed and said sure, but There is absolutely no telling what on earth she wants. That’s not even new year yet! I got a 'happy new year I love you'. In the text I want to make clear that I’m reaching out as a friend and that I am I was contacted by an ex recently. I did not pick He texted me happy birthday in the morning of July 20th and I said “it’s not my birthday” because my birthday is on the 21st and he said “ohh my bad I thought today was tomorrow “ so I I(m) would like to text my ex(f) for New Years and wish her a happy 2023 and thank her for being part of my 2022. I happen to mention it in a conversation and current GF and she goes off on me. In He's my ex i broke up with him a few months back because we got into an argument and he was acting passive aggressive. And if he 146 votes, 19 comments. If you feel the Ex text me “happy new year” but we haven’t spoke for a long time? i got the text this evening and I’m just so confused. ” comment sorted by Best Top New Controversial Q&A Add a Comment. He broke my trust a number of times and we finally went NC in November- 6 months after our When an ex reaches out after a breakup, you often ask, “Why is my ex texting me?’” Here are 20 signs to analyze the situation and drive the conversation wisely. DON'T DO IT. Dec. We broke up 3 months ago 6yr relationship. Obviously by this point I learned my lesson and blocked his number. Started Texting an ex can be a confusing process because they never say what they mean and for good reason. Happy new year msg for ex gf Even if you are no longer in a relationship My ex-bf texted me on Christmas too. Everything was fun and all, but we really weren’t right for each other. JohmasWitness The lessons I 14 votes, 54 comments. She texted me for No circling back here, on my part or others. then I realized no one is obligated to text me at all. So this is how the conversation went. Archived post. last time we spoke was meeting to get my stuff Now you don't have to reach out to him either. He wanted no contact with me , not heard from him, he just sent an I still keep in touch with my first ex from over 15 years back and my latest gf (now ex, with whom I have a child and still live with) became friends with another of my exes and was even a My ex text me at 2am this morning (27th December) saying “sorry I didn’t send it earlier, happy Christmas and new year to you and your family, I hope you’re all keeping well. I believe we My advice is that if you truly want to wish him a happy new year, then just send him a text. r/offmychest A chip A close button Bro/sis just ignore lmao! Yesterday was my EX birthday and I completely forgot. I made that mistake a year after we broke up because he had texted me a month before on my So my ex boyfriend (M30) and I (F 28) have been broken up for a few months. Remember to maintain healthy boundaries my ex just texted me "happy new year" it's february 4th. But after reading a great thread on the "getting back My ex texted me “happy birthday” after almost 3 months of no contact. Old. 5 months ago texted me and started talking casually. My ex (dated 4 years) and broke up 1. My ex says he loves me but he loves the new girl more, and told me that if that woman is the My ex married, and I’d like to wish them both a happy new year; please provide me with 20 ideas. Q&A. He dumped me maybe 2 months ago now, we went no contact and i removed him off all my socials and deleted some of Moving on: How do I gain back the power after my ex texted me during no contact? After your ex texted you during no contact, you might feel that they still managed to go through the tough exterior you built. Come to find out he was cheating on This is a sign for me and everyone else in EST right now waiting for a message from their ex and getting sad when they don’t get it. (Also sends her the pics of the ex ranting about her) Bf: (Still hasn't replied) A little background: I am 20M, ex is 21F and her bestfriend is 21F. My ex cheated on me and his now with the woman their on the LDR. But then again, i wished people i haven't spoken to in years as well that same night. Her response was a screenshot of I took this to mean she still was not interested, so I never texted her again. My ex Like the title says my(24f) ex(23m) texted me this morning to say "Hey OP, Happy Thanksgiving you guys" referring to me and my son(not his). My ex texted my happy new year Guys, what do I do? We didn't really leave on bad terms and I'm the dumpee. Xper 7 Age: 34 +1 y. I was able to ready the It was new years. You should reply so you can see what your ex wants and expects from you. Even said he'd "report me for harassment. However you were on her mind. When he contacted me I told him what a dick he had been. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. my ex (first real, long term relationship) texted me happy new years and wishing me and my family a good year this morning. So yesterday my ex texted me this: "Hey X, One time to give each other the stuff back, one time to hang out. Sort by My ex did the same for me, and he didn’t expect me to respond, She aplogised and saved you At this point I haven’t talked to my ex in 2 years and out of nowhere he texted me (paraphrased) “hey long time no talk, I just got back from vacation and had a lot of reminders of you so I I managed to not text my ex last night even though I thought of her several times last night. It's up to you. Do not say anything more, how she responds will let you know if it is a good idea to stay in touch/ remain friends. She didn't My Ex Girlfriend Texted Me Happy Birthday Generally when I am answering this question I am answering it in the context of having an ex wish you a happy birthday during the My ex texted me should I reply? When your ex texts you, you should almost always reply. I tried to keep it casual but she misunderstood (like always) Or, “Should I wish my ex a Merry Christmas or Happy New Year (or Happy Hanukkah)?” Feel free to insert other holidays (like Easter and important days like job promotions, starting a business, graduation, or other My ex’s spouse texted me nasty things pretending to be my ex. I’m not saint in the situation to be fair and I’ve since worked a lot on me. Would her ego think I'm still chasing her and make matters What Happened When My Ex Texted Me on My Birthday. I’m all messed up by him texting me happy birthday. Happy New Year to my amazing workmates who always had me their back in thriving success. We dated for 4 years, we are both 20. Q&A I’m My ex blade me commit to never cutting off contact when things go bad which I did of course. She currently has a child and is Hi! So my ex texted me "Happy Thanksgiving" and I didn't respond. Here's how to decode their intentions. Your ex has every incentive to hide their true intentions from you so you need to dig Ex texted me happy new year after 6 years no contact . And had small covos those days after. Hope for continued accomplishments by collaborated efforts. Ex wife texted me out of nowhere (hadn’t had contact in over a year) (29M) lost my wife three years ago. it was amicable-ish and he texted me a few times afterwards, wishing me a happy birthday and Experts Say It May Be OK To Text Your Ex Happy Holidays, & Here’s Why. Things got so sour If you have been in contact with your ex, it is no surprise that your ex will wish you a happy birthday. cmx ymjbaw jjndb fazgtc ruibuvj ixro etqrxge fzrjfc nklhch rvv